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A Woman’s Place, my current work-in-progress, is set in 1963 Dallas, in the weeks leading up the the Kennedy Assassination.
No, the novel is not about the assassination, but the timing is crucial. Without that world-rocking event, the conditions that propel the characters toward resolution would not exist.
And so, I tip the DeLorean time-travelling tour guide and enter the sixties.
Go-Go boots and blue eye shadow, paisley patterns and pastels, hemlines and hula hoops… Hm. What year were Go-Go boots in style? How short were the hemlines? When was the hula hoop invented?
In high school, the thought of research was enough to send me to the nurse’s office. In high school, I never needed to study the sixties.
The Lucy Show, Petticoat Junction, and Ed Sullivan dominated television. Johnny Cash, Elvis, The Chiffons, Ray Charles, and Lesley Gore hits crackled over the transistor radio. Suspense fans flocked to theatres to experience Alfred Hitchcock’s The Birds.
1963 flickers across my manuscript in a kaleidoscope of colour. And yet, some thrills and chills fall to the wayside like blobs from a cold lava lamp, too late in the timeline of history to make it into my book.
Bewitched is released 1964. Bond’s From Russia With Love premiers in London but doesn’t hit North American theatres until ’64. American teens weren’t introduced to The Beatles until 1964. Hm. ’64 seems like a pretty good year.
Another debut also missed my manuscript by mere months. In ’63, the Suzy Homemaker doll was no more than a glint in a toy maker’s eye.
Carmen Dodd, the heroine of A Woman’s Place, writes the Helpful Hints column at a Dallas paper, and I had a darling of a line set up involving Suzy Homemaker. A darling I had to kill.
It took more than a few Internet sites to pinpoint the date of Suzy’s manufacture. Or, as Chip said to Dale (or Dale said to Chip), perhaps the information was on the first page, and I started at the wrong end. Didn’t matter. I was caught up in a tempest inspired by Suzy’s 3-speed blender.
In 1963, the world was a young girl’s paradise. Why, she could do whatever she wanted! Entertain, wash dishes, clean house, launder, iron, bake and, most importantly, always look like a queen.
I realized early in the plotting stage that I wouldn’t be able to reference Suzy, but the afternoon of research was worth its weight in frosted party cakes. In the pages of A Woman’s Place, I had hoped to capture the role of women pre Gloria Steinem and the Woman’s Liberation Movement of the 70s. Suzy Homemaker put me in the groove of an everyday woman’s life in 1963 like nothing else could. The atmosphere girls grew up in, the limitations, the pressures and the expectations, hit me in the face like a blast of heat from Suzy’s lightbulb-operated oven.
Sometime in the nineties, I came across a few pages taken from a home economics textbook. I was gobsmacked by every wifely tip. The highlights went something like this:
- Before your husband comes home from work, touch up your make-up, put on a fresh dress, be carefree and gay.
- Plan ahead so that your man can depend on a warm, delicious meal when he comes in the door.
- Clear the clutter, dust every surface and turn off all noisy appliances (including children) in time for his homecoming.
- Save complaints, bills, and children’s demands until he is relaxed. Remember, he has had a hard day.
- Have a cool drink ready and the pillows on his favourite chair plumped. Offer a massage, but do not insist, for that will only add to his stress.
Cook, clean, take care of the children and look pretty. From toys to textbooks, this is the future girls were slammed with. In 1960, every woman’s place was Suzy Homemaker’s place.
Options, opinions, discussions? Sorry. The door on that oven is closed.
But you can leave a comment.
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I am so glad we are not in the sixties. I look terrible in blue eye shadow and I’m not good at that wife role as outlined above .
Isn’t it grand to have options? I grew up with reruns of Leave it to Beaver, live runs of The Brady Bunch and Charlie’s Angels, and entered the workforce to the tune of Family Ties. Now I write in the age of Criminal Minds, CSI and Big Bang Theory. My, how women’s roles have changed.
Oh good, Lord, where to even start. How mind blowing it is to consider that for so long little girl’s toys were all about perfecting their [expected] future labors!!! (Although, what’s worse, then, or now when girls toys are so much about Lookin’ Pretty?) And I can’t speak for all, but I know I REALLY wanted all that stuff! (Even the goofy hairdo on that lucky, lucky girl in the commercial). I just know my hubby can NEVER EVER see this post or he’ll know for sure how roundly he’s been cheated
Aside from Moi, there were some amazing things that came out of the ’60′s and it’s a blast having a backward glance. One of the biggest events I remember growing up, was when Timothy Leary came and set up shop in my hometown and put some serious fear into the hearts of all parents. There was a woman’s college in town and despite all the warnings and threats (aka anyone caught on the Leary compound would be immediately expelled) that dude was a magnet to girls who figured LSD was a great deal more appealing than Suzy Homemaker. I was too young at the time to be involved or in consideration of such shenanigans, but serious, Suzy easily had me at “Real Big Cakes!”
Barbara, I so wanted an Easy Bake Oven and the Barbie Camper and her fold-away house with a handy carrying handle. I’m so glad I did not grow up with the media onslaught and all the panti-less Britney Spears exposure (pun intended). I doubt my mother would have had the wherewithal to put Britney and her panties in their place and put me in reality.
I love the title of the book and would love to read it, if for no other reason than to take another “look back” at the woman’s place in Western society.
Sherry, at the cost of blowing my cover (or giving away my real age) I can only tell you this. The 60′s as a whole did not contain the proudest moments in America. I lived them and lived the anti-Suzie world of the blue collar working mom … my mom didn’t have time to worry if her make-up and hair were fresh when her man came home. They shared their work, the cooking, the cleaning and for a Naturalized Italian-American, my dad was the true liberated man. He never lived to see what happened. She lived to know what it’s like in that Suzie world when you’re a blue collar widow.
Yikes … it started with JFK and blasted through the decade with Martin, Bobby, the Chicago Dem. convention, the Tet Offensive, the Chicago trials, Kent State and continued to set the stage for Gloria, Ms. Magazine and the Nixon years. But great music was made, teenagers grew up believing they could make a difference and some of the best groundbreaking legislation in our nation’s history was passed. Ah, the good, the bad and the ugly of the 1960′s … Good bye American Pie, the revolution and the war were “televised” and the same year as Woodstock, this gal became a mom
Hats off to both your parents, Florence. Every decade has its pioneers.
In the early seventies I did take note that my mom was the only one in my class, year after year, that worked outside of home.
I was but a mere tot *smile* when Suzy Homemaker was introduced. Also, in ’65, Hurricane Betsy turned our home into a port and everything washed away, so we were preoccupied with refurbishing and readjusting to notice much of the rest of the world’s upheavals. I do remember the Beatles coming to New Orleans, because my sister wanted so badly to go, and my parents squelched it. Teen Drama, and I had the front row seat!
My dad traveled Mon – Fri, so my mom didn’t worry about 5o’clock . She went to work herself, so instead of Suzy Homemaker, my sister and I had the real thing. While our brother took off making money doing lawn work, we stayed home, watched Days of Our Lives and Another World, and made lemon meringue pies and beef stroganoff. I had a different 60′s, very sheltered away from all of the political and womens’ lib stuff – Mom working was for us to have more than the bare basics, not a statement.
But… once the 70′s and Jesus Christ Superstar hit the scene, that’s when it all hit for me! The Brady Bunch, the Monkees, and fringe… everywhere.
Wow, Pamela. As it says on my banner, what doesn’t kill us, makes us writers.
Snort on the teen drama over Beatlemania! I, too, was of a tender age, but remember the uproar in our household over Jesus Christ Superstar. Jesus, with long hair and sandals resembled a (gasp) hippie.
My oldest sister saw the movie, then brought home the soundtrack. My mother wouldn’t even touch it.
I had to ask the priest’s permission to receive it!! And when he said Of Course! my dad (who should’vecould’vewould’ve been a Jesuit priest if he hadn’t had his life planned out for him — another story) had a major conference with him after mass one day.
Needless to say, I memorized every song on that album, and when it wasn’t in play I sang it… overandover.
Guess I’m paying for all that now with what my kids listen to!
“Sorry. The door on that oven is closed.” And amen to that! By the end of the Psychedelic Sixties, there weren’t many young women paying attention to the Suzy Homemaker fluff. A door had been pushed open and the flood began!
Amen. I repeat, Amen.
p.s Love the title of your WIP.
I was born in 1960, so JFK meant nothing to me at the time. My mother was not a Susy Homemaker at all. She didn’t clean and rarely cooked. Her mother lived with us, so grandma did all the house-related work. My mom had a day job, so our house was redecorated every five years, we had the only home addition in the neighborhood, followed by a kitchen renovation. Looking back this was ground breaking. No one was doing these things. We also took tropical vacations in the winter which wasn’t the norm either.
What fun to research this era, Sherry. It must bring back such memories. I remember in grade 5 or so getting sweaters with little 6 inch zippers in all sorts of colours for Christmas. I loved those sweaters. I remember orange decor, Easybake oven and Chatty Cathy, pull the string and the doll talks.
OMG! Yes, Chatty Cathy! My sister and I each had dresses that matched out Chatty Cathy dolls and I still have mine hanging in the back of my closet
My oldest sister had a pink “leather” miniskirt. My other sister had what became affectionately known as The Mustard Dress, pink with yellow diagonals and a big collar and wide tie. I had pastel knee-highs in every colour. Knee-highs. Yuck.
And now, wide-legs are back in style. Go figure.
Did anyone else have a hula hoop and a slinky?
Uh…yeah! A bajillion of each over the years. BTW, any chance anyone remembers Click-Clacks, or Skip-it ? Click-Clacks were eventually banned because too many kids were Clacking themselves in the head with the balls, but we were a daring sort and refused to part with our one and only set–despite multiple injuries :-O
Repeated clacks in the head… And now we know the fate of an entire generation. SNORT!
My mother was a feminist and a stay-at-home mum (until we hit our teens). She wouldn’t let me have a Barbie doll or a Suzie Homemaker oven – though she taught me to cook and tried to teach me to sew. Instead, my sister and I had building toys and a dress-up cupboard that would have made Mister Dressup envious. No hula hoops – except at school – but my sister had a Slinky and I had a Spiro-graph.
Alison,
Bravo to your mom. I believe you can be a feminist and a stay-at-home mom and a supportive wife. Feminism is about choice.
I had a hula hoop and I was an expert with that thing. I could twirl it down to my ankles back up to my shoulders, sling it around my neck, and onto an arm–all without breaking the spin.
The mini-mini’s didn’t hit my fashion radar until I hit college. That where I learned it’s best to wear frilly panties on top of the panty hose–just in case.
In my middle-class suburbia-bordering-on-rural Pennsylvania hometown, girls were not permitted to wear slacks to school. There was a rule about the number of inches a skirt could be above the floor when kneeling. And, they tested. Trust me.
Imagine the trek to the school bus stop in frigid Pennsylvania winters wearing knee highs and skirts. No wonder most of us graduated from HS with our virtue. That part of the anatomy didn’t thaw out in the winter months after frosty blew bone-chilling wind up our skirts.
Too many memories to fit in comments, Sherry. Perhaps I’ll do a post for you. On one condition: YOU figure out how to upload my Bebe dance from HOTlanta so the youngsters on this site know I am not in my dotage, and can still get my groove on. Deal?
Gloria, dear Gloria,
I do know how to upload the BeBe’s clip in question, so long as I upload to youtube first… Just saying.
You don’t need photographic evidence that you can still get your grove on, my friend. Your youth spills onto the blogosphere with gusto!
Ka-Snort on the knee-high inducing virtue. I grew up in the ‘Peg, remember?
Your hula-hoops skills were clearly revered by all, skills you can bring to our next South Carolina belly dance session.
I am a child of the 70′s and didn’t directly experience the tumultuous 60′s. Growing up, I had Barbies, a toy sewing machine, an Easy Bake Oven, a slinky and a Spiro-graph. My parents divided household chores along gender lines: my dad put gas in the car, mowed the lawn and repaired the cars; my mom cooked, cleaned, and did laundry. Even as a kid I remember thinking “this is weird – my mom is perfectly capable of mowing the lawn or putting gas in the car and my dad knows how to cook (though not very well) and clean.” I asked them over and over why it was this way and they never gave me a satisfactory answer. So, I set out to prove to them that anyone could do any of those chores and insisted I be allowed to mow the lawn (it was a big riding mower and so fun to drive!), tinker in the garage with my dad’s tools, and when I was old enough, put gas in the car. It wasn’t until my mom got a job outside the home that I began to see that what she did both inside and outside the home had tremendous value.
Hey, Tami! In my house, chores were divided along “kid” lines. With four sisters and two working parents, The Girls did it all.
A small price to pay for Team A’s freedom of movement when Team Parent was working.
Well, what does that say about you, Tami, knowing that you recognized the divide at such a young age? I’m impressed.
Have to say, Dad was pretty equal-opportunity when it came time to mow the lawn, but with three girls and no boys, it was either that, or do it all himself.
My DH will barbecue in a blizzard, and that is one task I will never debate. You go out and grill with the polar bears, baby. I’ll stay inside and make sure the furnace is operating at full capacity. Snort.
A blast from the past! I have a child’s memory of that time. I always wanted an Easy-Bake Oven but never had one. I loved my Chatty Cathy doll and Barbies. And SpiroGraph. I think I still have that somewhere in the basement. Never could get the hand of the hula hoop.
It was many years later that I understood the impact of that era. You really brought back memories of how complicated those times really were. It’s a great setting for your novel and I can’t wait to read more.
Hey, Urve, you and me, both. No Easy Bake Oven, but I loved my Barbies.
I think it is so interesting that I was a child on one side of that huge shift, and my daughters were raised on the other side. I can look back at shows like Bewitched and cringe at the roles women played yet still remember seeing the shows when they were new (or new-ish) and still appreciate them for what they were–an accurate reflection of society and women’s roles at the time those shows were made.
I, like you, I dreaded research from grade school thru college. But there is something lightening or enlightening about WIP research. The setting is a crucial part of your book. A book that you love and want to do right by. So, all of a sudden research is fun.
Ten cheers for women’s lib! Choices are wonderful.
Megan, hello!
Do you suppose the research is fun because we are choosing the topic, and how we will present it?
Hip, hip, hooray (x10)
Totally!
I need a paper bag just thinking about what was expected of women in the 60s. Don’t ever let me time travel back to those days!
Carole, the DeLorean is in the garage, the keys in my pocket. You are safe!
Just noticed your new log line and type face. Love it.
The 60′s were very different for me…just getting out of high school and finding myself. The TV shows you mentioned register, though.
EEK. New typeface and logline? Cora, you’re scaring me. This logline and typeface has remained unchanged since I opened my blog doors.
Are you perhaps thinking of Romance & Beyond?
Anywoo, there were some great shows in that era, weren’t there?
Interesting looking back at my era through others’ eyes. I once had students doing a group project on the sixties tell me how we all wore flowers in our hair, experimented with LSD, and spent our time at Woodstock-like concerts. They were a little disappointed when I told them about living on a farm, going to church on Sundays and pretty much doing what our parents wanted. Funny how history records the most interesting but not necessarily universal things about an age. Oh, I sound like such a goody-two-shoes now!
What can I say, Elaine? You’re a wildcat now! Meow.
You’re posting this just to make me get lost in some wild slippers-and-hot-food-ready-when-you-come-home fantasy aren’t you? Well, at least I hope you are because fantasy is as close as I’m going to get!
Cheers
Would you like me to forward this post to Mrs. Nigel, or would that be a bad idea? Don’t want the little woman getting ideas…
LOL. Thanks for visiting, my friend. The Avro post is simmering.
I WAS being sarcastic.
Looking forward to the Avro revelations!
Cheers
KA-SNORT!
It’s fun to look back and imagine what it would have been like to have lived the era. I think there are some really huge pros and some equally huge cons but all in all, I am happy to be in the era I am now. LOL!
Natalie, aside from outdoor plumbing, no instant hot water, and having to pluck my own chickens, I often wonder if I am misplaced in time. Or is it simply the appeal of Little House on the Prairie simplicity that sings to my soul?
Woot. Where did that come from?
Note, very thankful for my push-button fireplace yesterday afternoon when the skies were grey, the air was chilled, and the rains poured down.
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